Dear Heidi

Dear Heidi,

It's hard to believe that it's already been 9 years since we lived together in Mitchell Hall!!! So much has transpired in both our lives since our college days, but despite the thousands of miles between us we continue to keep in touch and I'm so thankful.

I can't tell you how much it means to me that you make time in your busy schedule during your visits to the States to see little 'ole me! It amazes me that you make the trip to St. Cloud year after year and spend time with ME! You always have so much to do, and people to see around the country. Your trips to Minnesota mean so much to me and I appreciate it more than you know.

You are such a dear friend. Loyal. True. Loving. Kind. Thoughtful. Funny! Honest. I can be myself with you. I have never had to try to be someone I'm not when I'm around you. I know that you KNOW me and love me just the same. I love your authenticity! If only there were more Heidis in the world! Everybody needs a friend like you.

The way to a mother's heart is through her children. Or at least the way to my heart is through my children. It means a lot to me that you love my kids. And they love you! You make them feel so special and I'm so glad that you are a part of their life.

You are right that I think your life is more exciting than mine. You are travelling around the world and I'd love to see some of the places you've been. But thank you for encouraging me with the fact that my life - this life - of raising my kids is "exciting" too. It's important. Sometimes I struggle with my value as a stay-at-home-mom, and I have to purpose to be content.

I would encourage you to do the same! You long to be a wife and a mommy. God has other ideas right now! And if it's God's will for you in the future it will be all the more sweet! You are having incredible experiences around the world, and once you have kids I'm guessing you'll galavant a little less - it's just harder to do with little ones! (And more expensive!!!) Enjoy the life you're living! Once you have a baby you can never go back! =) You'll make a great momma, Heidi!

So now you're back in Singapore teaching a classroom full of precious preschoolers. These are the babies God has entrusted to you for now. They are blessed to have a teacher like you! I pray that you'll have a wonderful year and bloom right where God has planted you! Even if you have to wear sleeves!!! =)

I miss you dearly. And I look forward to seeing you next summer! Lily has told me several times that she wants you to come to her 5th birthday! =)

Take care, sweet Heidi! Talk to you soon. I love you!

Despite how it looks, Lily was enjoying this little smooch VERY much - giggling with glee!

Watching Lily play soccer

Buddies