Saturday, April 10, 2010

The baby of the family

for approximately six more weeks! It makes me so emotional to think that my baby boy is about to be a big brother. He will no longer be the baby of the family.

These nearly two years have been so special. Taylor changed our family in big ways! He is an amazing, charming, lovable little guy and we couldn't imagine life without him.

He made me a mother of two and Andy a father of two.

He made us the parents of a son.

He made Lily a big sister.

He put me through my longest period of sleep deprivation ever by not sleeping through the night consistently until he was 11 months old.

He nursed until just after his first birthday.

He broke his right leg just after his first birthday.

He split his right eyebrow open a couple months later.

He is allergic to eggs which caused big changes! While I was nursing I had to eliminate eggs from my diet. And now I am vigilant about what he eats.

He loves his pacifier unlike his sister who never took one.

He is attached to two blue blankies and carries them around throughout the day. And sleeps with them. It's reminiscent of Linus.

He still takes a bottle.

He is all boy and makes boy noises which nobody taught him.

He loves balls. He has a good arm and people can't believe how well he throws and catches for his age.

He has huge, chubby feet and it's hard to find shoes for him.

He loves to take baths and runs to the tub when I say it's bath time.

He puts up very little fuss when it's bedtime. Usually he waves to say nigh-night and is quite ready to go. He goes down about 7 and is up between 6 and 7. And when I say between 6 and 7 I mean 6:01.

He currently takes a great afternoon nap - about two hours or so. His big sister took about a one-hour nap at this age. =) He also likes to stay in his crib for awhile and have some "alone time". =) Once I hear that he's awake I usually give him about ten minutes before I go get him. Otherwise he's a little grouchy.

He likes Mickey and Minnie Mouse. His big sister also has a Daisy Duck that he thinks is pretty neat. And she has a baby doll that he sometimes likes to carry around and give a pacifier to.

He wants to do whatever his big sister is doing. Therefore, he is done sitting in a high chair or booster. Occasionally I still try to put him in there to keep him confined during a meal (less stress for me) and he gets pretty mad. He prefers to sit in a "big person chair" like Lily.

He walks up and down the stairs and has for several months. IT MAKES ME SO NERVOUS. I finally gave up trying to get him to crawl on his tummy, because he simply wants to do it the big kid way.

He likes to sit at the kitchen table and color with Lily.

He is a big fan of his daddy. When he hears Andy come home from work he usually shouts, "Daddy!" and runs toward the door. The two of them do lots of wrestling and playing. He also recognizes Andy's workplace and points and says, "Daddy!" when we pull into the parking lot to visit.

He loves his grandparents and gets very excited to see them.

He's more cuddly than Lily ever was at this age. He's definitely getting more independent, but he'll still sit with me for minutes at a time just to snuggle. I. Love. It.

He went through a phase this year where he had a hard time being left in the nursery during church or MOMS. It seems like he's coming out of it and does much better getting dropped off lately - I attribute that partly to the fact that he's getting more familiar with the people that are in there watching him. But having my child cry when I left was new for me because Lily never cared! Her attitude was, "See ya later, Mom!" I have to admit that it was hard to walk away and leave him in tears. But we both survived!!! =)

He's very friendly and is starting to say hi to people at the grocery store, church, or wherever.

He is a SMILEY kid. He just has a great, pleasant nature and is a pretty happy kid.

He likes to brush his teeth.

He folds his hands nicely when we pray and loves to say with enthusiasm, "Amen!".

He sometimes comes into the bathroom with me (going in there alone is a rare and special occasion for me) and helps me pull my pants up! It is HILARIOUS. Such a helpful child. =)

He likes to close doors. That includes the dishwasher and washer/dryer.

He sometimes runs his fork through his hair during meals. Drives. Me. Crazy.

He likes to wash his hands.

He likes things to be in their place and is good at picking up toys. He recently accidentally knocked a container of markers off the kitchen table. He immediately got down off his chair and picked them up without being asked.

He likes to put things in the garbage. Most of the time this is pretty helpful. Other times we find things like spoons in the trash. =)

He likes shoes and likes to wear other people's shoes.

When we're ready to go somewhere he runs to get his shoes and sometimes brings me his coat, too.

He usually doesn't like when we leave Lily at preschool and has cried as we've driven off.

He is adding words to his vocabulary. Here are some of the newer ones:
hi
bye
ow
puppy
on
oat (out)
doe (door)
dar (car)
gakey (blankie)
chup (ketchup)
oop (hoop)
be (please)
a-ee (thank you)
baby
bo (bowl)
egg (thanks to Easter!)
chetch (catch)
Ninnie (this is both Mickey and Minnie)
Nana (princess tianna - can you tell that he's seen the movie with Lily once or twice??? the poor boy has seen a few princess movies!)
chubby (his sister taught him this one and it is one of his favorites to say! he says it often!!!)
bubbo (bubbles)
la-lu (love you, formerly ollie)
lellow (this is both "color" and "yellow")



Silly baby playing with one of daddy's hats


Wearing my shoes around the house

Getting kisses from his sister. Most of the time this is okay with him. Once in awhile he whacks her.

Wearing pretty beads because Lily was doing it, too. You can see another little boo-boo on his forehead. He got this one on Palm Sunday morning just tripping and falling into something.

Easter Sunday

Watching him carry that basket around and hunt for eggs is one of the cutest things I have ever seen. He was so precious.

My precious-about-to-be-a-big-brother-turning-two-in-July-boy!
We love you so much, Taylor! You are a delight and a gift from the Lord!


Friday, April 9, 2010

Oh my

The following conversation between me and my daughter took place on Wednesday afternoon.

Warning: Contains "personal" words.

Might make you uncomfortable.

That's life.

I'm sorry.

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Lily: Mom, why do you have fuzz on your butt?

Me: (Took me about three seconds to realize what she meant!) Um, do you mean hair?

Lily: Yeah, hair.

Both of us: Giggling hysterically! Me laughing because you truly never know what your kids will say and it struck me SO FUNNY. Lily laughing because I was laughing.

A moment later...

Me: Um, well, that's the way God designed my body. When you grow up and become a woman hair will grow on your butt, too.

Lily: I DON'T LIKE HAIR TO GROW THERE!!!

Thursday, April 8, 2010

Lily behind the camera

Lily likes to take pictures. On this particular afternoon she took the following pictures over the course of about 45 minutes. It's so fun to see what she ends up shooting. I particularly enjoy the ones she took of herself!

WARNING: There are some very attractive photos of me . Don't say you weren't warned. =)










Resting my eyes. It happens. =)














Unloading the dishwasher. In case you were wondering.






Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Whoops. Wrong month! But better late than never.

I saw this rainbow cupcake recipe from D.isney Family Fun and thought it'd be a fun project to do with Lily on St. Patty's.

It was and it wasn't. I had a blast doing this with my daughter and seeing how delighted she was. Other parts of it weren't as enjoyable. Please keep reading.

The batter had to be divided into six bowls for the six layers. And that was the easy part. Here are our little bowls of cupcake batter and the Mixing Queen.


And this is the part that was a royal pain in the neck. (Literally) Every layer had to be spread to the edges and smoothed. So that the finished cupcakes would have six distinct layers.
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UGH!
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EVERY LAYER!
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There were sixteen cupcakes and they each had six layers.
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That's a lot of smoothing.
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I'm just saying.
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It's a good thing that St. Patty's Day only comes once each year because I need the rest of the year to recover from all the smoothing. Of all the layers.
But they turned out just precious. Don't you think? Lily was so thrilled and thought they were so cute.

They were even cuter after being frosted, but I forgot to get a picture after that step.
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Happy St. Patrick's Day!

Coming Soon...

A new blog design!!!


Jackie from Memories By Design is working on a new look for my blog! I AM SO EXCITED!

Awhile back I was rearranging some thing and totally goofed up the layout. And I don't know how to fix it! And I'd been wanting to update my blog anyway. So I thought it was the perfect time to bring in an expert. =)

I've emailed her some photos of mine that she can use, plus a few other ideas from istockphoto.com, and then filled out a survey from her with my likes/dislikes. I just can't wait to see the finished product!!!

Stay tuned!

Monday, April 5, 2010

Slumber party with Grandma and Grandpa

My parents came and spent a weekend with us and it was so much fun! We love having them around. And they have such servant hearts - sending me upstairs to take a nap, kicking Andy and I out the door for a date, reading to the kids, playing with the kids, loving on the kids, doing little kitchen projects with the kids, shaking out the rugs, doing a load or two of laundry (I know! I'm not kidding!), and just generally being a giant breath of fresh air. They are so amazing.

I hardly know how to express what my mom and dad mean to me. My entire life they have been this incredible, loving support system for me. And then Andy. And now they do the same thing for our children.

I am so thankful for their unconditional love. I am so thankful for their active participation in our lives! I'm so glad they're around to influence my kids.

So here are a few photo highlights from one of the mornings they were here. It was a ball!


My dad and Lily were playing this game where they would put a jewel under the blue lid. They somehow when Lily wasn't looking my dad would switch it with a different color jewel or more than one jewel. And then they'd say some "magic" words or do some funny routine and Lily was AMAZED every time! It was hilarious.

Here Lily is about to tap the blue lid.

More of the magic changing jewel game!

Grandma reading to Taylor. All the pictures were so precious and I couldn't choose!





On an entirely different note, would you please pray for me? Not to be too "personal", but I am having some serious pain in my nether regions. You may or may not know that when I gave birth to Taylor I separated my p.ubic bone. I don't even know how to describe that to you, but YOWSERS! It hurt like a son of a gun! Seriously. My epidural didn't phase it. I still remember it very well. And I've been somewhat apprehensive about it occurring again with this baby. I asked my doctor about it at one of my appointments and she wasn't sure what to tell me. It is entirely possible for it to happen again. Great!
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Well, the pain I'm having feels very similar to how I felt after I gave birth to Taylor. Sitting for any length of time hurts. Walking hurts. Lifting my legs to get into the car hurts. It just hurts. I had a doctor appt this morning and asked her about it. There isn't much I can do other than try to take it easy (yeah, right!), maybe take an occasional bath to try to relax the muscles, and take T.ylenol if I'm miserable. So, I'm not excited about the possibility of another seven weeks or so of this. And I would most definitely appreciate your prayers!!!


Thursday, April 1, 2010

My Amazing Lily

Well then. It's been awhile! I haven't meant for it to be, but the days are flying by! I haven't posted any updates about my kids in such a long time and I'm frustrated with myself because I'm not doing a good job keeping track of their milestones/developments for their scrapbooks!

This morning was Lily's preschool parent/teacher conference, so I thought I'd do a little update about her in honor of her glowing conference report!

Her teacher called her a darling and said the following things about my spectacular child:

*She is respectful and obedient
*She works really hard
*She learns new things really quickly
*She has no problem sitting and listening
*She plays nicely
*She LOVES to draw and colors beautiful pictures
*She's doing great academically and knows "everything" she should at this point
*She's a great kid!

If you're a parent I don't have to tell you how pleased I was to hear all that about my baby! I'm just so, so proud of her.

She really is an amazing child. She's a thinker and sometimes it blows my mind to hear what she's thinking about.

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Here is a miscellaneous list of current facts about my little girl:

She pays attention to road signs and wants to know what they say and what they mean.

She LOVES to color! She spends literally hours every week sitting at our kitchen table or the little table in her room coloring. For her age we are so impressed with her artwork. She can see something in her mind and get it on paper. She definitely gets her skillz from her dad! Andy is pretty artistic.

She doesn't like very many vegetables. (She also gets this from her dad!) Potatoes and corn are her favorites and they hardly count as veggies! She'll eat baby carrots when she's in the mood. And occasionally broccoli. She hates peas. When I make mac and cheese I usually add mixed veggies to it and this annoys her a ton! =)

She's "choosey" about her fruits too. The ones she consistently eats are apples, bananas, watermelon, and mandarin oranges. She needs a little encouragement to eat blueberries, strawberries, peaches, kiwi, and pineapple. She recently realized that she likes regular oranges. She doesn't like cantaloupe, pears or cherries! On "Red Day" at preschool she ate one raspberry and told me about it proudly. =)

A favorite meal is chicken nuggets and tater tots.

She likes pancakes.

If she could have any cereal she'd probably choose Cap'n C.runch. She had it once at my parents' and it changed her life. =)

She loves to play outside and ride her bike.

She loves to play with friends.

She loves her little brother, even though he can really get on her nerves.

She affectionately refers to our baby as Lulu and it's catching on! Don't be scared - we won't name her Lulu! But for now we call her that and I wouldn't be surprised if it "sticks" as a nickname even after she's born.

She's so excited for her baby sister to be born. She hugs my tummy often and can't wait for Lulu to be here. She thinks it's really cool that the baby can hear us, but wishes we could hear the baby! =)

She had her first dentist appointment this month and got a healthy mouth report. Ever since then she's been happier to brush her teeth and proudly shows off her "sparkly white" teeth.

She loves D.isney and all things princess related. Some days she wants to be a princess when she grows up. Other days she wants to be a mommy. Other days she wants to be a doctor. I can't wait to see what she'll do!

She can't wait to be 5. And I can't believe she's going to be 5.

She wants to play soccer this summer.

She still likes chocolate chips and marshmallows.

Some of her favorite books right now are some that we got through a book order. They're part of a little series on safety and she loves them! The topics include calling 911, wearing a helmet, strangers, etc. And she *loves* the story of Rapunzel!!! She requests this story frequently and even likes to act it out, playing the part of Rapunzel, while Andy or I read it aloud. She uses a blanket as her long braid. So funny!

Speaking of hair, she wants to grow her hair out and likes when I put a little braid in her hair. However, she hates getting her hair combed and it's stressful for both of us. I've always preferred to keep her hair shorter because of her curls. They just have a mind of their own and a way of getting snarly! We'll see...

Some of her favorite movies right now are 101 D.almatians and The P.rincess & The Frog. (The newest princess movie doesn't thrill me. It has some yucky, dark parts that are troubling to me and she doesn't like them either so we try to fast forward those.) She also enjoys M.ax and Ruby, Wow W.ow Wubbzy, C.are Bears, S.trawberry Shortcake, and The W.onder Pets. She watched M.onsters Inc with her daddy the other night and loved it! I wish you could have heard her giggling!

She loves to play with P.olly Pockets and has a small collection of them. But we're always losing those itty, bitty shoes and it drives me crazy!

She loves to take a bath.

She likes to pray for our meals. And she likes to pray for her friends before bed.

She likes to play games on the computer - either from the P.layhouse Disney or N.ick Jr site.

She misses our old house and sometimes says we should move back there.

A friend from preschool went on a vacation to Hawaii and sometimes she suggests that we should move there.

She told me today that she doesn't like motorcycles and that they are for boys.

She still loves to wear "dresses and tights". Although she's looking forward to summer so that she can just wear the dresses without the tights. (It's been pretty nice around here the last couple days and we can taste summer!!!)

Her beverage of choice is ice water. She's never really been a milk drinker and the only juice she likes is orange juice. I am 100% okay with that! And the dentist believes that her healthy teeth can partly be attributed to her beverage habits. =)

She has beautiful blue eyes.

She is getting so tall! Lily has always worn the same size as her age. So when she was 12 months old she was wearing 12 month clothes. And when she was 3 she was wearing 3T. It looks like she's pretty much going to skip 5T. I think this summer she's going to need to wear size 6! Of course it depends on the brand, but she has grown so much this year!

She wants to try roller skating.

Those are the things that come to mind right now! She's just such a blessing. She definitely keeps us on our toes, but we are so fortunate to be her parents!!! She's amazing!

She climbed onto this shelf and I grabbed the camera to snap a picture! How cute is she?!?!

Thursday, March 4, 2010

You've got to be kidding me

So Lily and I were playing in the snow the other day. And across the yard I could see something black moving across the snow. And I thought to myself, "No. There is absolutely no way. Not happening."

But yes, it was true.

To my horror there was a SPIDER crawling across the snow!

A spider.

Alive and well.

In the snow.

On March 1st.

And I said out loud, "You've got to be kidding me!"

Even a rip roaring Minnesota winter can't give us a break from spiders?!?!

I am truly dismayed.



p.s. i got a major haircut today. oh boy. pictures to come.

Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Lilyisms

This little exchange took place after dinner last night.
Andy: Those are good meatballs. You'll have to put those in the repertoire.
Lily: What's a reckatraw?

In the car this evening.
Lily: The sun's going down. I see a beautiful sunset. (She said this in the sweetest voice. It was precious.)

Tonight in her room she was picking out a couple books to read before bed. And no joke, she and I tooted at the same time! =)
Lily: Oops, I tooted!
Me: So did I!
Lily: Looks like there was a tooting party around here!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Change of plans and my kids are awesome

So that minivan? It'll be another 18 months before I get one.

My hubby and I have been chatting and are going to replace his car first. It took some convincing (because I was so excited about the minivan), but it really does make more sense to do it this way.

We're going to buy a used Chevy M.alibu. Our friend in the car business has it on her lot and is holding it for us. It's a steal of a deal. We may try to pay cash for it (thanks to our expected t.ax refund) and therefore eliminate one car payment altogether! Yee-haw!

The lease on the A.cadia is up in 18 months and my darling husband promises that we'll get the minivan then, Lord willing. So, I wait for that day with great anticipation. =)

I can't tell you how excited I'll be to be rid of that car. I mean, I do LOVE that car. It's a nice car. It's just ridiculously expensive and I don't know what we were thinking.

The simple fact is that we made some really short-sighted decisions with our car purchases in the past and sort of shot ourselves in the foot. We're dealing with the consequences now and it's been a good life lesson. Andy's car philosophy was always to buy new (something he says he inherited from his parents) and he was LOYAL to T.oyota and I never argued. In seven years his philosophy has changed a lot. Growing up is a wonderful thing, isn't it?

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On an entirely different note, Lily learned about Minnesota at preschool today. On our way home she shared with me that the Lady's Slipper is our State Flower. And she declared that it is now her favorite flower. Because it's pink. =)

And this is totally random, but I wanted to write it down before I forget. I've been pregnant during a nice chunk of Lily's life and I try to avoid caffeine during pregnancy. Occasionally I drink S.prite and I had some today. She asked if she could have a drink of it and she called it Sprite.

Big deal, right?

It just hit me that she used to call is "Sprice Pop". And it's one of those cute little things that disappeared gradually and I didn't notice. And then today she called it by the correct name and I was reminded that she's growing up.

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Taylor added another couple words to his vocab. Yesterday he and Lily were jumping. And Lily was saying "Jump!" with each jump. And he started to say it along with her. Only it sounds more like "jup" or "jop". It's pretty cute.

And this morning I was in the bathroom getting ready and he came in there telling me about something pretty earnestly. And I couldn't understand a word of what he was saying. And I asked him if he needed help. And he said, "hep!" and turned around and walked out expecting me to follow him.

And while Lily was at preschool this morning he and I were reading a few books. One of the books has a train with different color cars and I pointed to the purple car and said purple. To which he answered, "puhpooh".